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A question re: Beginning Fantasy for Youth

David Dyer-Bennet dd-b at dd-b.net
Mon Nov 25 21:26:30 PST 2002

Mark A Mandel <mam at theworld.com> writes:

> On Mon, 25 Nov 2002, Matthew Hunter wrote:
> 
> #> At 12:02 11/25/2002 -0500, Casey Rousseau wrote:
> #> Donaldson just turns on my squick sensor.
> #                             ^^^^^^
> #
> #You keep using this word.  I do not think it means what you think
> #it means.
> 
> As a matter of fact, the people I know who actually use that word, and
> from whose use I learned it, use it in a way very close to Casey's use,
> which the definition on that website (which I have seen before) has
> almost nothing to do with.
> 
> To the best of my knowledge, "squick", in the usage of people who USE
> the word, as opposed to inventing oddball definitions for words they
> don't use (cf. _The Meaning of Liff_, Douglas Adams & somebody else), is
> an experiencer-as-object verb meaning approximately 'disgust, nauseate;
> turn off or repel (i.e., cause [someone] to feel turned off or
> repelled]'.
> 
> By "experiencer-as-object" I mean that the syntax is like that of
> "disgust" rather than "hate":
> 	That squicks me.  GRAMMATICAL
> 	That disgusts me.      "
> 	I hate that.           "
> 	I squick that.   UNGRAMMATICAL
> 
> Its original sense *may* have been restricted to sexual practices and
> related subjects:
> 
>  1. made-up example:
> 	You can do that with your other friends if you like, but not
> with me. It squicks me.
> 
>  2. real example:
> 	KNOCK KNOCK
> 	(voices from inside):
> 		Who is it?
> 		And are they squicked by nudity?
> 	(voice from peephole):
> 		Oh, it's [name].
> 	(visitor):
> 		No, it doesn't squick me.
> 
> The word is also used in contexts without sexual reference, which *may*
> be an expansion of its domain.

Your definition includes "turn off", which is sexual.  And your real
example involves nudity, which to essentially everybody in the US is
sexual.  I think the sexual connection is pretty basic.  I agree that
the word may be starting to grow beyond that maybe.
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