> isn't 'reasonable obsessive-compulsive' an oxy-moron? > > no jabs here, I'm clinicaly light obsessive-compulsive. In her case, no. She's one of the most reasonable people I have EVER met. She just has a hard time, sometimes, getting out of the door to go to work. (And a few other things.) But she tends to be (underline that bit:) extremely calm and collected when others would be totaly unreasonable. Go figure. Chris