On Thu, 28 Nov 2002, Thomas Yan wrote: #First, a suggestion. When you intentionally send a private reply, #please try to say so, so the recipient doesn't have to query you to #check if you meant it to be private rather than public. I normally begin such messages with "(Off-list.)" for just that reason, or to reassure the recipient that a message is private that they might prefer to remain so. #1. Have you accidentally sent a private reply instead of posting to # the list? Yes. #1'. Have you accidentally posted to the list instead of sending a # private reply? I don't think so, on this list. #2. Have you received an accidental private reply that was meant to go # to the list? Yes. #3. When you get a message that was sent to you instead of the list, do # you feel obliged to query the sender to ask him or her if it was # meant to private instead of to the list? Often I don't even notice, or I see very soon that the sender has noticed their slip and re-sent to the list. #4. Has the Reply-To behavior of this list caused you confusion when # posting to other mailing lists, perhaps even causing you to # accidentally send a private e-mail instead of posting or vice # versa? Possibly. But most lists I'm on are intended as *discussion* lists and are therefore set up to facilitate discussion, with a default that replies go to the entire list. Some lists implement this by having the message come "From:" the list and including a line identifying the sender and timestamp; others by a "Reply-to: [list address]" header. #5. How do you feel about the Reply-To behavior of this list? # Do you + dislike it -- Mark A. Mandel http://world.std.com/~mam/Cracks-and-Shards/ a Steven Brust Dragaera fan website