> 1. When I reply to a message on this list, should I be replying to both the > user and the mailing list, or just the list? I realize when I only want to > reply to the user, but I'm talking about when I want my reply posted back to > the list. Some people energetically advocate not both. > 3. What is the proper way to refer to the author we're here for? I've been > using "Mr. Brust", but I've seen "Steve" used quite a few times. I don't > know the man, so I'm not entirely comfortable assuming it's okay to refer to > him by his first-name (in the third-person, even). Has he previously > expressed a preference? Taste varies. I may be the only "SKZB"er, but I recommend it as analogous to YHWH.