Sometimes, arguments are just fun to have no matter if people are willing to admit it or not. I like listening to arguments and I enjoy having them (or throwing myself into one just to have a say). Sometimes arguments can solve things, directly or inderectly; like argueing over who didn't refill the toilet paper. Eventually, a plan or something will be worked out so that there will always be toilet paper (silly analogy). Or, if the Maid of Honor doesn't want to wear red and she and the bride argue over it, the solution: Get a new Maid of Honor. I don't know if I am makeing any sense here cause it's still before 8am, but I don't care. Argue that if you want to. -C