On Wed, 14 Aug 2002, Steven Brust wrote: > As I understand it, a "boi" is a female who identifies as a submissive male > in a lesbian relationship. A "boy" identifies a submissive in a gay male > relationship. > > As I understand it, the BDSM community is in a race with the business > community to see who can do the most damage to our language in the least time. Well, maybe in your circles *shrug* I've never heard those definitions used. But, then again, the goth and BDSM and poly communities will probably never get organized enough to agree on a unified dictionary. Unless we take over the world, or something. *smirk* I think the business community is winning on that one... but who cares. Language is subjective, like all things. ****** NyteMuse "Call her life unnatural, feel her undead breath. Color her black for sorcery, color her gray for death." AIM: NyteMuse139 / ICQ: #21966269 (NyteMuse) MSN: NyteMuse / Yahoo!ID: NyteMuse http://www.crowfire.com