----- Original Message ----- From: "Nytemuse" <nytemuse at auros.org> To: "Dragaera Mailing List" <dragaera at dragaera.info> Sent: Thursday, August 15, 2002 12:13 PM Subject: Re: OT: bois (was: Sethra Lavode vs. Enchantress of Dzur Mountain) Original Message From: "Nytemuse" <nytemuse at auros.org> > On Wed, 14 Aug 2002, Steven Brust wrote: > > As I understand it, a "boi" is a female who identifies as a submissive male > > in a lesbian relationship. A "boy" identifies a submissive in a gay male > > relationship. > > > > As I understand it, the BDSM community is in a race with the business > > community to see who can do the most damage to our language in the least time. > > Well, maybe in your circles *shrug* I've never heard those definitions > used. But, then again, the goth and BDSM and poly communities will > probably never get organized enough to agree on a unified > dictionary. Well given that we *still* can't agree on "What is goth" do you think we'll ever bother? > Unless we take over the world, or something. *smirk* Sshhhhh! Don't tell them! Baralier -- If you steal from one person, it's plagiarism. If you steal from many, it's research http://members.optushome.com.au/velvetspyder Costumier & Reprobate