Dragaera

OT: bois (was: Sethra Lavode vs. Enchantress of Dzur Mountain)

Thu Aug 15 05:15:18 PDT 2002

Original Message From: "Steven Brust" <skzb at dreamcafe.com>

> As I understand it, a "boi" is a female who identifies as a submissive male
> in a lesbian relationship.  A "boy" identifies a submissive in a gay male
> relationship.
>
> As I understand it, the BDSM community is in a race with the business
> community to see who can do the most damage to our language in the least
time.

Can't say that I've ever heard "boi" used to describe a female of any sort
either in or out of a BDSM community.

Could be an American thing. But given the number of online Americans I'm in
contact with I would have thought I'd have come across the term before.

Baralier
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