Original Message From: "Steven Brust" <skzb at dreamcafe.com> > As I understand it, a "boi" is a female who identifies as a submissive male > in a lesbian relationship. A "boy" identifies a submissive in a gay male > relationship. > > As I understand it, the BDSM community is in a race with the business > community to see who can do the most damage to our language in the least time. Can't say that I've ever heard "boi" used to describe a female of any sort either in or out of a BDSM community. Could be an American thing. But given the number of online Americans I'm in contact with I would have thought I'd have come across the term before. Baralier -- If you steal from one person, it's plagiarism. If you steal from many, it's research http://members.optushome.com.au/velvetspyder Costumier & Reprobate