Dragaera

OT: Subjectivity vs. Objectivity (was: bois...)

Randi128 at aol.com Randi128 at aol.com
Thu Aug 22 15:37:15 PDT 2002

On thursday, 8-22, Sunny Han wrote: I think that in our schools kids who 
speak well, are good at math and answer questions in class are generally 
saddled with derogatory lables-

I have always been that "geeky" kid. I was lucky and I never found myself the 
victim of taunts or discrimination. It was the exact opposite. My fellow 
students respected me more, valued and asked for my opinion, and generally 
liked me for who I was. Yes, I was a varsity athlete, yet I had a 4.0 average 
for high school. I went to a public high school so it wasn't like I was at a 
school for the gifted where everyone else was a "geek" too. The one thing 
that I did experience was a feeling of isolation from my fellow students. I 
did not feel like I fit in until I attended graduate school. Everyone there 
was a "geek", just like me. I think that sometimes the lines between 
catagorisers and catagorees can become blurred. I know a group of people that 
feels proud to call themselves 'nerds' and has developed an identity with the 
term. Yes, they are all computer programmers, and very talented at that. They 
are proud of thier brains and are unashamed to be 'nerds'.
A name can only hurt you if you let it. 

John D. Barbato